When you are engaged to something, you should carefully observing yourself and others. There are much to be taken care of and it is a long road of self-improvement.When you know you have Allah in your heart, then you are ready to face the world.
When you know you have Allah's love in your soul, then you are ready to love and to be loved.
When you know you have Allah's blessing in your deeds, then you ready to fight for your right.
To have faith in HIM before you give your trust to other human being.
Make ease of others jobs, and InsyaAllah HE will give you the easiness to lead your life.
Short note of ;"Me and My God, Allah."